Hello.
I'd like to tell you a story and see if I can help you, just as someone once helped me.
Before we get to story time, I wanted to give you some context first. This picture was taken just a couple weeks ago:
I took it at one of my favorite Sunrise viewing spots in Santa Barbara, California.
I had just finished up a morning walk where most of the time was spent in deep thought of how I could be more effective at empowering you with the tools you need to build the life you want.
I wake up, do my warm up exercises to help make my back happy, take a walk, and recite numerous things I am grateful for while noticing the beauty of the world around me. Then I begin asking myself questions: "how can I more effectively reach them." "What is the difference that will make the difference for them?" "How can I empower them with more certainty so they will listen to their heart instead of talking themselves out of something with their fear voice?"
I love this morning routine - I always feel happy, grateful, and inspired after.
There was something a little different about this particular morning walk which is why I am writing you today.
As I was enjoying the sunrise, I found myself reflecting back to a turning point in my life that happened nearly 15 years ago.
I was shy, self conscious, insecure, staring at myself in the mirror having just finished my then morning routine of telling myself: "how awful I was," "what a loser I was," "how worthless I was," "I didn't have anything worth contributing," etc... There were moments during those days where I hated virtually every fiber of who I was.
To make matters worse, I had just received a letter from UCSB (my college I was attending) saying if I didn't get my grades up I would be kicked out of school. Not only that I was on probation from the dorms for alcohol abuse (about to be kicked out of there too).
On that fateful day there was a spark that I had never noticed, (or maybe had never listened to before), that told me I could be more.
I had no idea how, but I knew one thing with absolute certainty, I did not want to keep living feeling the way I had any longer.
For the first time I felt inspired to want to be happy, feel confident, and to matter. It was an important time in my life, a turning point.
Maybe you've had one of those? Or maybe you're in a transition right now, or ready for one.
My transition began with: figuring out what makes me happy, discovering how I could create self confidence, caring more deeply for those around me, and giving back to those who would listen.
People noticed and asked what had changed. I would tell them about what I was learning from all the books I was reading and training's I was attending.
My heart would break when I would meet people who were allowing fear to be in the driver's seat of their life. I wish I could count on one hand (unfortunately the actual number is much larger) how many beautiful, potential filled people I have met, who were settling for less than their desired life because their minds were plagued with fear, self doubt, and uncertainty.
I believed if these people only had the right tools then they too would be able to eliminate their fears, get rid of the bad B.S. (belief systems), ditch stress, worry, and anxiety so that they could build a life filled with financial abundance, happiness, joy, and freedom to live life the way they want to live it.
I knew I wanted to make my life about making a difference in the lives of others by empowering them with the essential tools and techniques for building an extraordinary life.
I never imagined I'd have the freedom to do some of the things I get to do. I call one of the most beautiful places in the world my home. I get to set my own schedule, travel when I want to, test out new ideas, and have the opportunity to contribute meaningfully to the lives of others.
And I never imagined that yours' and mine paths would cross (I am very thankful you read my blogs). :)
I never foresaw
Facebook,
YouTube,
Instagram or
blogs. I just wanted to inspire others as I had been inspired. I wanted to help others achieve the life they truly desired instead of settling for the life they were living.
I'm sharing this with you because I know you see all my posts, videos, and courses I offer.
But behind it all, there's this excited big kid who still feels lucky to have had a second chance at life to do life the way I was meant to vs the way fear was dictating to me. Today, as I share this with you, , I remain in awe of the tremendous freedoms and impact I have been blessed with.
Lastly, this blog wouldn't be complete if I didn't check in on you to make sure you are living the life you desire?
If not, maybe you never realized that you could?
It's not unrealistic. No one knew me when I began, so it's not like I was special or had some secret advantages like money or a huge network of friends (I grew up fairly poor and my shyness/insecurity/lack of self confidence put a big stop on friendship forming).
I think my only advantages I had were:
1.) I knew I wanted more.
and
2.) I knew that if someone else could accomplish what I wanted, then the potential was there for me too.
If you want to have some of the mental and emotional breakthroughs like I did, so that you can live the life you know you were born for, then, you probably need to do what I did.
Here's the abbreviated list:
- I read approximately 200 books on mindset, emotional mastery, psychology, business, biology, successful people, and human behavior.
- I participated in several 1000 hours worth of various trainings... both online and live (in person).
- I hired several different mentors/coaches
- I tried, I failed, I tried other stuff out, failed, learned, grew, tried, made progress, etc...
- Most importantly I got my thoughts and emotions to sink up so that I could get what I wanted to get out of the above.
- I believed I could.
If you and I never connect beyond this email, I wanted you to at least have some rough guidelines of what I did, and continue to do.
If you would like to accelerate your results and cut out a lot of the frustration and uncertainty then I have an eight week coaching program that is designed to help you do exactly that.
If you are struggling to master your mindset and feel like you do not have the emotional control you want, I would love to speak with you!
Let's set up a complimentary strategy session and discuss exactly how this eight week coaching program will help you breakthrough the wall(s) of limiting thoughts and master your emotions so that you can build the high quality of life you were meant to live.
To set this up
simply click here, fill out the short form, and pick a time that works best for you to meet.
I sincerely hope you take me up on this eight week program as I would love to have some more friends to join me in the next sunrise selfie.
